24 Best Sex Toys for Couples to Spice Up the Bedroom 2024

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Sex is fun but sex with a buzzy vibrator or dildo really spices things up. No matter how long you’ve been together, the best sex toys for couples are always a fun way to reignite a sexual flame — or just to add fuel to the fire.

Far from being a sign that your intimacy is somehow lacking, using pleasure products with your partner shows that you’re open to exploration and adventure. In fact, shopping for a toy together can even count as foreplay. To help you and your significant other come — or, rather, cum — together, we’ve chosen a selection of our favorite couples’ toys and included selections to help all bodies get off.

The options are endless: cock rings that can be worn on bio penises and strap-on dildos alike; insertable vibrators for buzzy penetrative sex; kinky treats for those looking to explore BDSM. These toys cater to a range of preferences and budgets. We’ve also added a selection of wand and bullet vibrators that will hit all of the right spots. Read about these satisfying picks below, and you might just choose to stay in for your next date night.

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Best App-Compatible Sex Toys

Best Overall: We-Vibe Sync 2

Why It’s Worth It: The We-Vibe Sync 2 is one of the best sex toys for couples for a reason. It’s designed to stay put as you change positions, fitting comfortably inside the vagina during penetrative sex and providing both internal and external stimulation with its deep vibrations. It’s one of the best vibrators period, but especially for long-distance lovers.

Editor Tip: The free We-Connect app lets you control the toy from anywhere in the world — meaning your partner can have a hand in your pleasure no matter how far away they are.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, waterproof, 1.5-hour run time, USB rechargeable, app-connected

Best G-Spot Vibrator: We-Vibe Rave 2

Why It’s Worth It: We love the We-Vibe Rave 2 for both internal and external stimulation. Its smooth, ergonomic shape moves with your body seamlessly, and the customizable vibrations will feel uniquely yours.

Editor Tip: Like all We-Vibe toys, the Rave 2 is remote-controlled via the We-Connect app, so you can play near or far. You (or your partner) can also use the app to control and customize the pattern, intensity, and speed of the vibrations.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, waterproof, 2-hour run time, USB rechargeable, app-compatible

Best Rabbit Vibrator: Lovense Nora Rabbit Vibrator

Lovense Nora Rabbit Vibrator

Why It’s Worth It: You might think a rabbit vibrator is strictly for solo play, but let us convince you otherwise. The Lovense Nora has a motor in each head — one to tickle the clit, and the other for deep G-spot stimulation. Not to mention its 4-hour battery life will keep you coming, and coming, and coming. Try it out if you’re into double penetration or use it during foreplay.

Editor Tip: We also love this for long-distance lovers, thanks to its connected app that allows the vibrator to be controlled from across the world. The app also allows you to customize your vibration pattern, and you can even sync it to music.

Product Specs: Rabbit vibrator, water-based lube compatible, unlimited vibration settings, waterproof, 4-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best for Long-Distance Couples: Lovense Lush 3

Why It’s Worth It: Long-distance relationships, allow us to introduce you to an LDR sexual savior: the Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator. This clitoris and G-spot-stimulating vibrator can be connected anywhere in the world via WiFi and the brand’s app, so your partner can control its customizable speeds and intensity levels from anywhere in the world.

Editor Tip: If your partner so happens to be around, the Lush 3 also connects through Bluetooth for foreplay in and (discreetly) out of the bedroom as a panty vibrator.

Product Specs: G-spot and clitoral vibrator, 3 speed settings, 4 vibration settings, submersible in water, up to five-hour run time, rechargeable, app-compatible

Best Remote-Control Vibrators

Best Panty Vibrator: PinkCherry From A Distance Remote Panty Vibe

PinkCherry From A Distance Remote Panty Vibe

Why It’s Worth It: PinkCherry’s From A Distance Remote Panty Vibe is not only an affordable pick, but it’s also a surefire way to spice up your next date. The magnetic wings ensure the vibrator doesn’t slide around or fall off, and the long-range remote can be controlled across a room (like, say, a club, movie theater, or restaurant). There are 12 different sensations to pick from, but hand your partner the remote and let them choose for you.

Editor Tip: Of course, this is a great pick for public play, but it’s also excellent if you need a little assistance getting turned on. We recommend putting it on while you get ready for your date night or late-night sexy time.

Product Specs: Panty vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 12 vibration settings, waterproof, battery-operated

Best Luxury Toy: LELO Tiani 3

Why It’s Worth It: If you’re in the mood for something a little luxe, we’ll always point you to a LELO toy. The Tiani 3 is built for couples; one arm vibrates your clitoris, while the other vibrates inside of you. These vibrations can be felt by both partners, and there are eight yummy settings to choose from.

Editor Tip: You can wear this vibrator during foreplay, during anal play, or with the G-spot arm inserted during penetrative sex.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 8 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Range: Desire Luxury Remote Control Panty Vibrator

Desire Luxury USB Rechargeable Remote Control Vibrating Panties

Why It’s Worth It: Sure, vibrating panties can be pretty gimmicky, but they can also be pretty damn fun. This is especially true when you invest a bit more and get a pair with a satisfyingly powerful vibrator, like the Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Panties. There’s something incredibly sexy about being in public with your partner as they control your pleasure while no one around has any idea.

Editor Tip: With this toy’s eight speeds and 12 patterns, you may have trouble maintaining your composure.

Product Specs: Panty vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 20 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour run time, USB rechargeable, remote-controlled

Best Standalone Toys

Best Strapless Strap-On: Desire by Lovehoney Strapless Strap-On Vibrator

Desire by Lovehoney Strapless Strap-On Vibrator

Why It’s Worth It: A strap-on that doesn’t require any actual straps? Sign us up. The Desire by Lovehoney Strapless Strap-On Vibrator is probably one of the most impressive couples vibrators on this list because it provides G-spot stimulation to both the wearer and receiving ends.

Editor Tip: This G-spot vibrator also acts as a rabbit vibrator for the wearer and has a total of eight vibration patterns and 12 speeds to enjoy.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, 20 vibration settings, waterproof, 1-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Body-Contouring Vibrator: Mysteryvibe Crescendo 2

Why It’s Worth It: The shape-shifting MysteryVibe Crescendo 2 does it all. This vibrator can be worn flat against the body or bent into a “U” shape for both external and internal pleasure. Explore all the ways the toy bends during a partnered session, then rest assured your partner will have many ways to occupy themselves when you’re not around.

Editor Tip: The Crescendo is also app-controlled for remote controlling and long-distance intimacy. Oh, and did we mention it boasts six motors all along the body? Yeah. Pretty serious stuff.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 16 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Hands-Free Vibrator: Dame Eva II

Why It’s Worth It: This tiny vibrator from Dame packs a punch, thanks to its three intense vibration settings. Slide the flexible legs under your labia, press the button, and let it do the rest — totally hands-free. Not only will you feel supercharged vibrations on your clit, but your partner will also feel the tantalizing rumbles during sex.

Editor Tip: Like many picks on this list, you can use Eva II for hands-free solo play, too, which is great if you like to use your hands to stimulate your nipples or other erogenous zones during masturbation.

Product Specs: Clitoral vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 3 vibration settings, waterproof, 1-hour run time, rechargeable

Best Wand Vibrator: Le Wand

Why It’s Worth It: Similar to the classic Magic Wand, the Le Wand massager is technically a clitoral vibrator, but it can be used on all of your sensitive spots (think your perineum, vulva, nipples, and anywhere in-between) for added stimulation.

Editor Tip: This innovative rechargeable vibe has a bendable neck and soft silicone head that’s paired with 20 toe-curling vibration modes and 10 speeds to choose from.

Product Specs: Wand vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 30 vibration settings, not waterproof, 3-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best C-Ring: LELO Tor 2

Why It’s Worth It: The LELO Tor 2 can easily slide over a penis or a strap-on dildo alike. This cock ring’s vibration speed can easily be intensified or lowered with a click of a button. Slide it on for couples play, but know that it can also be used for solo sessions.

Editor Tip: The bulky head also acts as a clitoral stimulator to get both partners off. It’s a wonderful option for all genders and orientations to enhance penetrative sex.

Product Specs: Cock ring, 6 vibration settings, waterproof, 1.5-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Finger Vibrator: Lovehoney Ignite 20-Function Finger Vibrator

Lovehoney Ignite 20-Function Finger Vibrator

Why It’s Worth It: Sure, you can do a lot of sexy things with your digits. But when you slide on this small finger vibrator, you can do even more. The Lovehoney Ignite silicone vibe slides on your finger to deliver vibrations to your clit, nipples, inner thighs, and anywhere else (except your butt) you or your partner get off.

Editor Tip: Ignite is also totally waterproof, so you can have fun in the shower or bath.

Product Specs: Finger vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 20 vibration settings, waterproof, 1.5-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Stroker: Fun Factory Manta

Why It’s Worth It: For anyone with a penis, a stroker can add deliciously intense stimulation to the shaft. Fun Factory’s versatile option has flexible, crab-like arms that fit around the penis. It’s ribbed to add pleasure (and hold lube better) and has six speeds and six intensities to customize your session.

Editor Tip: Hold it at the base of the penis during a blowjob for a deep throat feeling, stroke it along the shaft during solo sessions or foreplay, or hold it steady during penetrative sex to share the love with a partner.

Product Specs: Vibrating stroker, water-based lube compatible, 12 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour run time, USB rechargeable

Best Discreet Vibrator: Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

Why It’s Worth It: The Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace may seem like an average piece of jewelry to most people, but with one press of a button, it turns into a powerful external vibrator. This stainless steel vibrator has four speed settings to play around with, and its discreet look makes it perfect for sex toy beginners who don’t want anything too phallic-like.

Editor Tip: The beauty of a discreet vibrator like this one is that you can surprise your partner by wearing this out and not mentioning that it’s a sex toy — until later. Heck, you can even consider public play with a toy this slim.

Product Specs: Bullet vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 4 vibration settings, not waterproof, 40-minute run time, USB rechargeable

Best Dual-Sided C-Ring: Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Vibrating Cock Ring

Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Vibrating Cock Ring

Why It’s Worth It: With the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Vibrating Cock Ring, you can turn any penis into a vibrating dildo. This wearable vibrator fits snugly around the shaft to stay put without feeling uncomfortable and it’s sleek enough to not get in the way when you’re experimenting with different sex positions.

Editor Tip: This is different from other cock rings in that it has a dual motor for twice the stimulation on both the penis and perineum, plus plenty of rumbles for partners during penetrative sex, too.

Product Specs: Cock ring, water-based lube compatible, 5 vibration settings, waterproof, USB rechargeable

Best Dildo: Pleasure Works Maven Silicone Dildo

Pleasure Works Maven Silicone Dildo

Why It’s Worth It: The Pleasure Works Maven Silicone Dildo comes in multiple colors and can be used with a harness for strap-on sex, double penetration, or all-alone pleasure. It’s long and girthy for anyone who gets off on the feeling of fullness.

Editor Tip: Use one on yourself when your partner is too tired for sex, or switch up penetration style and penetrate your partner with the dildo using your hand. Just don’t forget lube!

Product Specs: Dildo, water-based lube compatible, waterproof

Best Sex Accessories

Best Massage Oil: Maude Burn

Maude Burn No.1 Massage Candle

Why It’s Worth It: To amp up the romance during your next date night, light this massage oil candle from Maude, extinguish it after 30 minutes or so, and give your partner a sensual massage. No. 1, pictured here, has warm notes of amber, cedar leaf, clove, tonka bean, and lemongrass — but you can choose from three other scents, including No. 0, which is unscented and ideal for sensitive skin. You can apply the oil directly to their skin, or pour it in your hands first.

Editor Tip: Even if you’re not typically interested in temperature play, we urge you to give this candle a shot. The oil feels warm — not hot — and leaves your skin silky and moisturized.

Product Specs: Jojoba and soybean oil-based, 4 oz., 4 scents available

Best Sex Pillow: Liberator BonBon Toy Mount Sex Pillow

Liberator BonBon Toy Mount Sex Pillow

Why It’s Worth It: Trust us, your sex life will reach pleasurable levels you never thought were possible after taking the Liberator BonBon Toy Mount Sex Pillow for a spin. This half-moon-shaped sex pillow is one of the best couples’ sex accessories for its comfortable shape, sturdy support, and most importantly, its toy holder.

Editor Tip: Whether you have a partner or diving into solo play, slip your favorite bullet vibrator or even a butt plug into the mount for effortless, hands-free pleasure.

Product Specs: Sex pillow, waterproof, machine washable cover

Best for BDSM Beginners: Unbound BDSM Basics Set

Why It’s Worth It: Unbound’s BDSM Basics Set is anything but basic, especially for those of you looking to explore kinks. This restraint duo comes with the brand’s Orion cuffs, a set of cushioned hand (or ankle) cuffs with an adjustable over-the-door strap, and the Tether PVC bondage tape.

Editor Tip: This tape is quite innovative since it only sticks to itself (not your skin or hair), making it strong enough to restrain yet super easy to remove.

Product Specs: Patent leather and PVC, not waterproof

Best Blindfold: Calexotics Boundless Blackout Eye Mask

CalExotics Boundless Blackout Eye Mask

Why It’s Worth It: With a vegan leather finish, this Calexotics Boundless Blackout Eye Mask will leave you with heightened senses and no idea what’s coming next. The elasticated band will ensure the mask isn’t too tight, and the plushy, padded fabric feels comfortable, and not constricting.

Editor Tip: While many blindfolds and eye masks that are made for sex look quite sexy, this one is understated and sleek, so you could wear it on the plane to catch some Z’s, too.

Product Specs: Polyester, double-padded, stretchy

Best Harness: SpareParts HardWear Joque

SpareParts HardWear Joque

Why It’s Worth It: For strap-on sex, you’re going to want a harness that puts in work so you can focus on the fun stuff. This one from SpareParts is made with high-quality, breathable (and stretchy) fabric, and features a flexible O-ring that fits a wide variety of vibrators and dildos.

Editor Tip: It fits flush to your skin to make penetrative sex even more connected and intimate, and the waist strap is adjustable to 50 inches, making it one of the more size-inclusive options on the market.

Product Specs: Harness, unisex, waterproof, 1.5-2″ flexible O-ring, adjustable waist strap 20-50″

Best for Minimizing Pain/Sensitivity: Ohnut Depth-Limiting Rings

Ohnut Depth-Limiting Rings

Why It’s Worth It: If painful penetrative sex is an issue, the Ohnut Intimate Wearable Bumper will definitely help your overall sexual wellness. It’s considered more of a “bumper” than a penis ring because it comes with four stackable silicone rings to adjust how deep the penetrative partner can go, lessening any pain for the partner being penetrated in the process.

Editor Tip: It’s a true game-changer for anyone who has endometriosis-related sexual pain, anyone having penetrative sex for the first time or for partners with penises that are a little too well-endowed. Plus, the Ohnut is also great for testing the waters of pegging and anal sex.

Product Specs: Depth-limiting rings, water-based lube compatible, body-safe polymer, waterproof, comes with storage pouch

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